Passage of time

Amazing how many hours slip by while planning how to use your time! ~ Anonymous

I think this quote is anonymous because so many people are guilty of it. If we got half as much stuff done in real life as we do in our minds, what a success we would be. Procrastination would be a thing of the past and life would be boring. I say that because I have found that planning sparks creativity and motivation. What we need to do is find a balance between the two.  We need to make a planning and doing pact with ourselves that consists of using our time wisely out wasting it.

Your Outlook Matters

Where you are right now, doesn't determine where you'll end up or where you'll be as time passes. Yes, it is part of your journey and the choices you make, things you do or don't do, the actions you take and the way you respond /react to things will contribute to the outcome but, you still have to see each day as a chance to make changes as you figure out what works and what doesn't as you continue to work towards your goals. No matter how long it takes and in spite of the obstacles / challenges you face, continuously remind yourself that you and the outcome you seek are worth it. Along the way, make note of the reasons you're working towards whatever it is you're working towards and refer to it when necessary. When you're doing what you can to encourage yourself and keep going, every little bit helps. So, hang in there and do all you can to make your journey memorable, worthwhile, fun and unforgettable because the way it turns out depends on your outlook twords life and all that you face while living it.

It's Up To Us

“A smile happens in a flash, but it's memory can last a lifetime."The way we treat someone / what we say to them and do for or to them, can stay with them forever. Therefor we should do our best to be kind , compassionate, helpful and understanding. By choosing our words and actions carefully, we can make a positive impression and leave the people we encounter during our lifetime with a reason to smile/feel good about themselves. In a world full of so many uncertain things,  mixed emotions and beliefs, giving and/ or leaving someone with a reason to smile and believe that there's more good than bad in this world is an accomplishment that truly makes a difference.

Effort Required

"...Faith without works is dead"- James 2:20
There is much to be accomplished. In order to do the things you want to do, become the person you want to be or to just follow your dreams, you have to believe anything is possible and put forth the effort to reach your goals. All the belief in the world means nothing if you sit idly by waiting for things to happen rather than taking the necessary steps to make them happen.

Something I Believe

"The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of what they have."

       Tough times are knocking at my door. Trying to make ends meet is a struggle but I'm holding on. I'm grateful for my family, my friends, the struggles I've seen and overcome, the life lessons I've learned and the ability to strive for better times all while knowing I'm not going through this alone. What I hold onto is the belief that a change is going to come and the knowledge that it could be worse. Lucky for me, my mom taught me about family, faith, the power of prayer and endurance.

      Thinking about where I am takes me back to when I first became a mother. I didn't have much money and material things were scarce. What I did have was all that my mom taught me and the appreciation of what matters most. At the time, that was a heart full of love for my son and the desire to make the best of what we had and the most of every moment. I can honestly say in my mind, I had more than I deserved. As time passed, I was blessed with a daughter. Through them, I came to know what earthly treasures really were. I remember telling them we had the most valuable thing of all, each other.  Together, we made the most of our days and cherished our moments in time. We wrote letters and notes, spent time together, and we shared our joy and our dreams. We lived, loved, laughed and inspired each other. We had so many just because moments. We made one another better people and we always had a reason to smile...EACH OTHER! Through making the best of what we had we came to find we had more than enough. Those hard times made us resilient and hopeful. Through the years, things got better and sometimes, they got worse but you wouldn't know it because we learned to make the best of it.

     No, love and heartfelt gestures doesn't pay the bills but they do make tough times bearable and easier to get through.

You Time

"Relax, reflect, recharge, renew!" ~ Woman's World magazine

I like this quote and chose to share it because it expresses the importance of taking time for yourself. You earn it! You deserve it! You need it! Basically, in order to be the best you that you can be, it is important to take / make time for yourself. A little indulgence in a legal and moral guilty pleasure every now and then can be very rewarding. It can renew your spirit and restore your energy. Make a list of things you like to do or would like to try. Pick one from time to time and set a day and time to make it happen. You can decide to do something for yourself once a week, twice a month, once a month, twice a year, once a year; it really doesn't matter what you choose, just make sure that you follow through with whatever you choose to do because you deserve it. Everyone can use an escape every now and then. You and the ones you love will benefit from you taking / making the time for yourself. The peace of mind that comes with it is a source of pleasure that will bring you joy, make you smile and restore your energy all while recharging your batteries so you can be even better at completing your goals, obligations and responsibilities.

Navigating Life

As you face each day, believe that anything is possible, because, it is. Be full of wonder and willing to listen and learn. Try to see the good in all you face. If for some reason, the good eludes you from time to time, have faith that the bad will work itself out. Imagine the possibilities and let your dreams run wild. Be hopeful! Follow your heart and pray daily for yourself, others and our world. Cherish what matters and let go of the rest. Know that there are no guarantees but it takes just as much energy to be optimistic as it does pessimistic. The only difference between the two is one brings you down and keeps you down while the other lifts you up and helps you through. So, remember to find a reason to smile through all that you face. Laugh as often as you can. Treat others the way you want to be treated. Appreciate what you have and count your blessings. Give thanks, give back, hold on, and trust that although the navigation of life comes with many twists and turns as well as ups and downs, at it's worst, it's still worth living and enjoying.

Be

Be encouraged
   determined
    and
   patient
Be hopeful
   resilient
     and
   flexible
Be  accountable
   loving
     and
    kind
Be honest
   trustworthy
      and
   faithful
Be yourself
Be aware
Be unforgettable for good reasons
Be happy
Be appreciative
Be forgiving
Be mindful...
Be willing
    to
BEcome who you want to be

You Got This

Week 2 of the new year is here. Your resolutions /goals for 2014 are supposedly set in stone this time. Now comes the hard part. The part where you have to keep your resolve and see your  resolutions /goals through. In making the decision to change /do / accomplish something, you took a big step. As you make progress remember that you and only you can stop you from succeeding . Continue to remind yourself that in order to achieve your goals and make your dreams come true, you have to face the fact that you will face obstacles as well as the fact that it won't always be easy. Don't let that stop you. If you believe in yourself and decide that no matter what, you aren't going to give up and that you aren't going to let setbacks stop you, you will find a way to do / accomplish what you set out to do. So, embrace whatever challenges you face and show them that you're unstoppable because your mind is set on succeeding and giving up, isn't an option.

Free Yourself

When so many things happen at once, we find it easier to just give up. We convince ourselves that nothing is going to change so, we end up accepting things as is and try to make the best of it. However, just like you convince yourself that you're destined to make do rather than strive for more, you can convince yourself that anything is possible by changing your way of thinking. Once you start believing anything is possible, you have the power to make a difference in your life. It may be hard at first because you wonder where do I start? This is all I've ever known. Once you get past the second guessing of yourself and the self doubt, you free yourself to take steps towards what your heart truly desires.